• bionicjoey@lemmy.ca
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    6 days ago

    If someone says I’m not afraid to be vulnerable or that I’m in touch with my emotions? Nah

    But if someone called me a pussy or insinuated it’s not masculine to have a healthy relationship with your emotions? That definitely would bother me.

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      6 days ago

      But if someone called me a pussy or insinuated it’s not masculine to have a healthy relationship with your emotions? That definitely would bother me.

      Yea, I was referring more to this part. Like sure, other ppl’s tolerance to hurtful stuff that u say might be high, but mine isn’t. When I confront u with this, u just dismiss it by hand waving the issue like “oh you’re too soft n delicate either ways”. Like NO. I mean I may be “soft n delicate”, but could you just not be mean?

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        6 days ago

        I’ll be honest, I can barely understand what you’re saying here. Your writing style hurts my brain.