I like my (small) boobs best naked, overall I think my build looks best without clothes, the horizontal lines and slight squish irritate me, I hate putting on a swimsuit and looking worse instead of better. Jeans and T-shirt, that stuff looks fine, my husband once remarked that I looked the same dressed and undressed, which was a funny comment but it’s true.

Big boobs look better to me when supported though, that shape in a good bra is so pretty. Guys often look better in clothing even if they look good naked too. Clothing is decoration and naked is plain, maybe you just enjoy bodies adorned with clothes.

Best part of any sort of swinging is the 1 on 1 with your own love afterwards. I think that’s something who never tried don’t understand. It concentrates your pleasure together way more than it dilutes it.

Imagination, most of the time. Written D/s M/f erotica, or occasionally MF/f, written from either perspective, the rest of the time. I enjoy a lot of the pictures on here but not in a way that inspires masturbation. Just enjoy smut in general, interesting and keeps a slow burn, right?

Never really seek out porn videos.

My husband loved to watch me with other guys, but wasn’t into humiliation (except from the other side, he did bull for some couples).

I think it’s the humiliation that makes it cuckolding kink, not whether it’s same sex/opposite sex. So yeah if you like them making fun of you for getting each other off better than you could, it’s cuckolding.

Without the humiliation, just voyeurism I would say. Same as if she liked seeing you get railed by some guy and enjoying it, but not feeling anything except happy about it.

Yeah I would need to know if a guy is submissive because that wouldn’t work for me, wouldn’t judge you for it at all just not good match. Just spent too many years fighting my own nature, I am not doing that for any guy anymore. So I think it’s good to get out of the way, the girls who are into it will love it, probably be a relief to them.

You know, I think if you can dream it, someone somewhere is already getting off on it.

Congratulations, and welcome to womanhood! On the boobs, and the “yet”, we don’t all get 'em. I am a woman who has always lived in a female body and at no point in my life could I fill a boob- focused shirt, not even while nursing. It’s not a requirement, you can look very feminine with tiny tits, and very sexy, just gotta choose the right outfits.

This is so close to being a limerick

There once was a dude in the bed

Who begged and begged and begged

For his girlfriend to shit him…

I think most people’s sexuality does evolve over time, and kinky or open-minded people might go through phases of really being into something.

But a fetish, like something that develops early and the person needs it? I’m not sure. That seems like asking if I could stop needing to be heterosexual, more than asking if I could give up wanting to be dominated.

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Hmm, in written erotica I can enjoy more masochistic stuff than I can enjoy in real life (I do enjoy some but too much will pull me out of the moment) but in videos pretty much enjoy what I do like, or have liked.

Like Schimitar also said - I do also enjoy younger people in video, they are attractive on screen but not IRL, not even in looks do I find them sexually attractive, only good looking guys close to my age do that for me (though that ‘close to’ bubble is certainly wider than it was, it’s still not very big).

Well hello! I never felt like a type before, lol.

No. Feet have gotten wider as people have gotten fatter, so there’s some correlation with wider people in general. Bone structure in general has no correlation afaik, and there are plenty of whip lean skinny guys packing really big cocks.

Also, it’s very normal for straight women to appreciate beautiful women. When we look at porn, often I’ll focus on the woman, because I know how that feels, so instead of thinking “what I’d like to do to him” I am thinking “what would it feel to be her”, understand? But tried sex with women and nope, is not like sex for me. Not distressing just nothing there, I am heterosexual.

Having said all that - my kids were raised without any fear around sexual preference and all have been confident in whether they were into men, women, or both, from the start of their sexuality. So I do agree it’s family/social pressure or expectations a lot of the time. When those are not present, kids do find their way.

I agree with swingers club but if you are going as a single guy it’s usually either really expensive or hard to get in.

But one of the funniest things to ever happen to me was getting fucked by my husband in a swingers club, so into it, got off so hard I pushed him out, looked up and there was a crowd watching us, that was not there when we started and I was so centered on the sex I had no idea until we stopped. Laughed so hard.

On SLS or FetLife sometimes voyeurs will put a request, some couples like that alright.

Glory Holes flat no from me so no idea, sorry.

Sounds like an ideal outcome, that’s good to hear.

I’ve written about this before but my long term ex had huge loads and ack, terrible horrible taste. As I didn’t have experience with oral, I thought all guys were like that, and couldn’t for the life of me understand how anyone could enjoy oral sex. It was really nauseatingly unpleasant. Could only spit it out and brush my teeth.

Well, next guy I fucked had low volume neutral tasting cum and I had a big moment of revelation. Husband is the same way, and both of them are once or twice (or thrice) a day guys, and vasectomized ex was more a once a week guy and so ridiculously fertile it was kinda problematic. Which makes me wonder if the literal sperm tastes bad, and also if waiting days makes more volume.

You can count me among the women who don’t prefer big loads.

SwingLifeStyle. Literally just SLS.com to get there. I am sure it depends where you are, but here it was pretty active.

Now? In bed.

But when we were swinging, SLS app was pretty good, for over-30 crowd anyway. And assuming you are looking for a couple or a man.

If looking at my whole life?

8 years hookups just with friends and acquaintances.

Then monogamous for 20 years, until 5 years of no sex then I got a lover and realized I wasn’t gonna make it celibate the rest of my life.

Then a couple years of drama, some swinging, etc.

Then I met my eventual husband, online. We had some years of swinging but for health reasons about 8 years monogamous now. I can do this easier with him because we fuck at least once a day, for a dozen years so far.

I think it’s normal to have oddball hangups, nobody gets experienced without some baggage, basically. You know this is a you problem so I don’t think it’s an anti-sexual-woman thing, more like an OCD thing, right? I think the answer here is to bring your own condoms, or go shopping for them together since it’s a planned thing.