I’m shamelessly stealing that person idea, because I think it’s an interesting question.
Personally I’m into porn involved some forms of abuse, often it’s rape but it could also be just spanking or gaslight. Of course I’m not into that in real life. I know CNC is a thing, same with consensual SM and I could be into trying those one day, but I don’t see myself doing that with my husband anytime soon, and it’s different when it’s planned in advance, which is not always the case in the story presented in porn.
Hmm, in written erotica I can enjoy more masochistic stuff than I can enjoy in real life (I do enjoy some but too much will pull me out of the moment) but in videos pretty much enjoy what I do like, or have liked.
Like Schimitar also said - I do also enjoy younger people in video, they are attractive on screen but not IRL, not even in looks do I find them sexually attractive, only good looking guys close to my age do that for me (though that ‘close to’ bubble is certainly wider than it was, it’s still not very big).