As the title says, what is one thing in your sex life that you would change if you could?
I wish I could have the ability to have sex with the occasional different person.
More adventurous
More often and more partners probably. But I’d change a lot about it if I could.
Being able to cum at will. Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn’t. I feel like some women get upset if you can’t cum.
The frequency. My wife and I are busy, and it’s hard to fit in intimate moments.
It is. And when there’s the time, there isn’t the energy.
Not much, I have a man who fucks me every day, and there’s just not much more we can do practically with two teenage kids.
But if we had more privacy, I would sure like more rough play.
If God would do us the favor of eliminating all STDs, I’d like the occasional MFM, that is something I’ve always loved IRL even though oddly enough I don’t fantasize about it - but experienced guys my age, I never want to deal with a new HPV again and that is kind of unavoidable at this time, it dodges condoms.
I’d change to actually having one, hahaha. But historically? I’d want clear communication. Tell me what turns you on, tell me you want to mix it up, tell me you need more or less. I enjoy it more knowing you’re enjoying it
This is a great answer. Communication is underrated for sex. Most people assume everyone is the same but people are different and change over time. I wish this was discussed more in general.