I also don’t mind exaggerated. I’d like to be able to picture myself in that situation, but I have some imagination available. And I know realistic and grounded sex. That’s not what I read literature for.

It’s difficult. Sometimes it’s necessary to introduce that, since it generally also throws the reader off if they got time to form a picture in their head and you suddenly destroy that and have her large blubbery breasts weigh down on your chest on page 20. Or need to describe her eyes in detail later because they look at each other for a minute. Or in book 2 her sister comes visit her who also has ginger hair… I think that’s the reason why people do it. The less specific you are, the more you have to constantly factor in that all the characters could have vastly different appearances. And later descriptions of scenes have to get even less detailed.

Generally speaking I’m completely with you. Reading stories sparks imagination. And it’s fun to imagine the characters, picture the scenes. It’s not easy to write it that way.

Hehe, glad it turned out quite alright for you. I guess there might be a happy ending to that story/letter. And now I get the context of your writing.

I also really like people who are direct an honest. If it were up to me, we could skip most of the clues and hinting at things. I mean if we’re trying to convey something to another human being we can make a deliberate choice to either make it simple and just say what’s on our mind, or make it a riddle for them to solve. I like the first approach and I think it would be to the benefit of everyone if people chose to do it that way.

Ultimately your situation is a bit different anyways… I wouldn’t dare to ask a random person for sex, it would be wrong. But if you’re already sending dick pics and talking about your cock… ¯_(ツ)_/¯ You can probably skip the social etiquette and speak your mind. They’re the right person to be honest with, or they would have ran away way earlier. (My opinion)

I like it. Sure, maybe it’s a bit more on the mechanical/technical side of describing the act. You could also describe the character’s emotions and how these things make them feel. But it’s not that obvious in such a short text. I think if you had given me that without a disclaimer, I wouldn’t have guessed it’s by someone who isn’t considered to be a normie…

Especially in the realm of erotica and pornographic stories, there are so many perspectives on things, fetishes and really outstanding things people like and focus on… The word “normal” kind of looses its meaning here.

There are guides on how to write erotica. It’s more focused to describe a scene than other kinds of fiction anyways. And I mean general tipps on storywriting apply if you want it to sound professional. Use past tense, choose a perspective from which the story is told, have a central theme and something that develops the narrative and characters and goes somewhere. But if you’re just doing it for you, you can skip all of these and just do whatever makes you happy. Except for consent of involved parties, there aren’t many rules to sexuality. There is some pressure by society, but in the end we all have to find out what we like and do that.

Alright. To contribute answering my own question: Some people seem to enjoy VRchat. That’s virtual reality however, not text-based. Maybe it’s the predominant way today, idk.

YouTube: The Unspoken World of ERP | A VRChat Documentary

https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/erp-erotic-roleplay