So I’m just going to say it - I don’t last particular long when I masturbate, maybe 2 or 3 minutes continuously. It just always made masturbating pretty uneventful for me - might I even say boring.

Lately however I’ve been wanting to change that a little. I started to try and edge to make everything last a little longer, which ended up causing quite a bit of ruined orgasms xD.

I also decided to buy some new sex toys. I ended up buying a prostate massager which MY GOD is probably the best purchase I’ve ever made. To my surprise I was able to make myself cum hands free which I’ve never been able to do!

Figuring out what I like has been such a blast and made masturbating much more enjoyable for me! Fuck I might even enjoy it a little too much >⁠.⁠<

So I wondered, most people always talk about what they enjoy during sex but let’s switch it up. What’s does the perfect night for yourself look like? Maybe I’ll even be able to get some new ideas from them!

  • jackal@infosec.pubEnglish
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    4 months ago

    Okay but what was the new toy? My friend wants to know. My friend is my prostate.

    To answer: find a great porn, play with a few toys, possibly edge for a while until an explosive orgasm.

  • lazyneet@programming.devEnglish
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    4 months ago

    Anal dilators are nice. My anus gets a little more forgiving each time. This somewhat sates my libido and serves the additional purpose of preparing me for a pounding I hope to receive some day soon.

  • Throwaway69420@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    4 months ago

    Staying as close to the edge as possible for as long as possible—which usually ends up being somewhere between half an hour and an hour in my case, if I’m honestly keeping myself right on the edge the whole time—and then, as soon as I can’t possibly hold it anymore, do the exact opposite of ruining it. That is, whenever I’m about to cum whether I want to or not, I deliberately stop edging, speed up, and just make myself cum as hard as I can. I love dedicating an entire hour to making myself cum so hard I can no longer form complete sentences, one time, and then just laying there and being totally satisfied by that. It’s 1,000℅ worth the effort.

    • FixLongJumping9032@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
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      4 months ago

      That sounds really freaking difficult. I’ve always had such a hard time controlling myself when I’m on the edge! I’ve got better at it but my self control is not what I want it to be xD

      It does sound like such a good time! Maybe I’ll just give it a shot!

  • DarkGlass@r.nfEnglish
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    4 months ago

    Recommendation for sex toy: e-stim plug

    I never tried something like this before, but oh wow is this fun :) (and you can set whatever strength will keep you at your preferred arousal-level)