We’ve been getting new faces/bodies in the OC communities, and I’d like to hear from them here, too :-)
Share all the naughty fun you’ve been up to this week. That includes the new cock sleeve you wore, or the sleeve of Oreos that you polished off all by yourself!
I was invited over to cuddle with a guy I know. It immediately escalated and he was slapping my balls hard while I sucked his nipples. He had his finger in my ass begging him to let me cum when he said no. Then we fell asleep lol. He Dommed me so well I’ll be going back lol
Hot. Love when there’s a delayed gratification component. Did you know that’s how he likes to play?
We had talked before and he said he just liked to be what his play partner wants him to be. So when we started I told him I liked orgasm control and CBT and he did a great job of it. The only bummer is he didn’t let me get him off either.
Things got cut short though cuz I wasn’t feeling well.
Still on Long Island, still no job, so things have been weird.
- Friday, however, while out to run some errands, I met up with a guy on Grindr who lived near the hardware store. He wanted to take of my cock, and I wanted that, too.
- Fun guy, very chill, played music on his PS5/Spotify. Spent so much time sucking me off, about an hour the first time. He was somehow squeezing his throat tightly around my cock while fitting most of me in his mouth – I have no idea how it was amazinig. I was rimming him for so long, too, and I loved how much he loved it. I’m starting to get pretty good at slapping a nice big booty while chowing down. Sounds good, and feels good in the hand.
- Slowed him down a couple of times so we could keep going. Finally, I let him swallow my load and we had some nice chatting and goofing around.
- I had him cum while I was rimming him, which was enough to drive me to cum a second time. He was a good boy and ate it all up again.
- Some fun embarrassing stuff with his roommate coming home early and me mostly naked cleaning up in the bathroom. Good chat about the anime we like. He also had an adorable and chill cat that played with me for a little bit :-)
Not bad! Isn’t that two weekends in a row of sexy times?
I’ve always been a bit apprehensive of the Grindr crowd. The weekly flings with different partners are not for me. I’d like to find one or two kinky people who would stay with me for a couple of years and keep the intensity up on weekdays as well. It won’t happen in the pueblo I’m stuck in now, and I think I give off loser vibes because I can’t dig myself out. At least people are giving candid accounts of the fun they’re having so we can all join in the discussion.
Yeah it is. While I’m looking for that more regular partner I figure I may as well have some fun. Most of the guys I meet are well-educated professionals and we often have lovely chats before, during, and after our time together.
From what I’ve seen, Grindr is very very different in different towns. A few months ago I was in Pasadena and it was terrible, then I was in Beverly Hills and it was dope. So I’m not surprised if you have a very different experience.
Not everyone is fwb/relationship material, but y’know if someone cute wants to SMD, who am I to refuse? 😉 Even a little casual fun can help you get out of a rut - in some ways the pressure is off if you’re never going to see them again. My first Grindr hookup was just last year: a tourist who was staying in a nearby hotel. Kind of helped me flex some muscles I hadn’t used in a while (literally) 😏
Oh man I had no idea you’ve lost your job too! So sorry to hear - I hope you get a job soon!
Friday guy wanted to take your cock off??!?! 😱 I hope your cock has recovered!
Jokes aside, the dude sounds like a real winner! As always, super impressive all the mad sex you get on a weekly basis!
Thanks. I’m taking my time to find the right next thing.
Good catch. I edited to correct the missing word.
Good guy. But for me weekly is so much less than I want it ;-)
Hahahaha!! Too right dude, too right!!
- Friday, however, while out to run some errands, I met up with a guy on Grindr who lived near the hardware store. He wanted to take of my cock, and I wanted that, too.
I matched with this girl on Bumble, and the conversation went from “lets meet up in London” to “lets meet up at your town”.
We met up, had coffee, went back to my place, made out and had some filthy sex!
Sad news is that I thought this was going to lead to a capital R relationship, but I think she just wanted to have a cheeky shag. Nothing wrong in it, but I wish she hadn’t strung me along.
Doesn’t Matter: Had Sex.
EDIT: Completely forgot two things:
- She said I had a big cock! Anyone who knows my past knows I had some insecurities around this area, so I was so chuffed to hear that!
- She said I was the first person to have made her cum through penetrative sex alone!!
My friends, I think I deserve a trophy 😎 😎 😎
Great to hear from you. Yes 🏆 for you! Been a while, right? Getting a woman to reach orgasm from penetration alone is quite an accomplishment. You’re clearly a good lover, with good attitude, good equipment, and good technique!
Edit: other than “good” how are you feeling, champ?
Man, I had like a whole paragraph typed up and it got lost! I wonder if this has been happening for some time!
I’ll keep this one short in case it reappears:
- Thank you! I gracefully accept my prize!
- It has been a while, things have been up and down. Work sucks. Applying for jobs sucks. Family have been awesome throughout the whole ordeal.
- I’ve matched with another woman, although she hasn’t given selfies when I asked (despite asking me and I gave selfies - in my PJs no less!!) so I think that’s a red flag tbh.
It’s great to have the support of family during a job search. I’m rooting for you, brother. So you’ve never seen pictures? Where did you match? On Hinge I’ve found women with kind of nonsensical answers to questions are all fake profiles.
So back at the time I did see pictures, but then she didn’t really have a picture on her WhatsApp profile (???)
And then a few days after, she unmatched (???)
But today we did a video call and she’s cute af, but she seems a bit sensitive to sexual advances right now, so I gotta chill on that (I complimented her boobs 😂)
EDIT: Thanks for the support on the job side!! I’m rooting for you too!!
My FWB brought over his fleshlight, I showed him my toy collection. We spent all Saturday together completely naked. He used a vibrator on me for several hours over multiple session, I came sooo much. I edged him all day with his fleshlight, it was so fun making him squirm, until he finally came inside it.
Sunday night we watched the superbowl with some other friends, and went to his place to fuck afterwards. I wore some red lingerie under my clothes to watch the game and surprised him with it, he asked me to keep it on while we fucked.
We had agreed to only do the benefits thing on weekends but we’re making an exception for valentine’s day.
Eee this is sexy and adorable! Both using your toys on each other, and you edging him with it. It’s great to see that much communication and experimentation in a hetero pairing. And I totally get it. Sometimes sex partially clothed is even hotter than being totally naked, I totally get where’s he’s coming from with fucking you in you lingerie ♥️
Enjoy V-Day. Just remember if you’re also doing to have dinner, have dinner after you fuck! You’ll enjoy it more. That’s some sage wisdom from Dan Savage, himself!
Thanks! I’ve been having so much amazing fun with him!
I’ll definitely take your advice on that. I hope you’re spending V-day with someone as well! ❤️
How sweet. A guy I like, R, isn’t free on V Day but we’re meeting tomorrow for an actual date (instead of a cuddle and light kissing). I’m going with a very hot married guy, C, to an event at The Met on V Day. I don’t actually know if he’s interested in doing something naughty after but he’s a cool guy and he’s becoming a good friend.
Good luck with both of them and have fun! I want to hear how your date(s?) goes
I’ll share in my update next week for sure. Already had a new kind of fun today that I’ll talk about then. 😉
Had a long discussion about sexuality with my neighbor/coworker/roommate. (it’s complicated). Also, he has a new headmate who calls me mommy/sis (it’s also complicated) in a sexual manner. Which is neat.
What’s a headmate? Like he has multiple personalities? That’s fascinating.
Essentially? But unlike a dissociative type, he’s the core about which other personalities /people revolve and he has a bit of control