• jarfil@beehaw.org
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    6 months ago

    Honestly, I’m having a hard time not blaming everyone in this.

    • Seller: scamming wannabe scammers, while actively spreading and promoting toxic ideas.
    • Buyers (1st level victims): wannabe scammers, trying to scam the final victim.
    • Victims (2nd level): being so shallow as to fall for a fame scam.

    As the saying goes: “you can’t scam a honest man person”… but a dishonest one, oh boy, you can scam them over and over and over.

    • Gaywallet (they/it)@beehaw.org
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      6 months ago

      Again, can we please not victim blame? Calling this a failure, saying that they must be “so shallow” to fall for a fame scam is analogous to saying “she was asking for it because of the way she was dressed” to a rape victim. Being a human is complicated and there are many reasons a victim can fall prey to a scam. It’s not as one dimensional as you’re painting it and regardless of how shallow a person is, no one deserves to be taken advantage of. The focus of discussion here should not be the victim, but rather the perpetrator and the fact that they are out to take advantage of others. That’s abhorrent behavior and we should keep the focus squarely on them.