Raven

Only with partners, and I think it’s awesome!
I just enjoy watching him stroke, and he enjoys watching me.

Find more men? Honestly, if its FFM, it’s about the women, and the male is their toy. Assuming your the male, do as your asked. They can go for hours, you can’t.

Both me and my husband are basically, eyes face, and for me bum, for him, boobs.
Nothing else for me I think, I like deep voices, but more so, I find high pitched and scratchy voices a turn off.

But then him, being outwitted. He is stupidly smart, he has a PhD and 2 Masters, and finds someone outwitting him or outsmarting him actually a turn on. It’s weird. The odd times I do it, prove him wrong, he almost instantly jumps my bones, he can’t control himself.

Yeah, if its not your thing, then it’s not, don’t try forcing things, that never works out well.

But a Bi MMF threesome is a great way to ease into it if your curious, I’m guilty of helping a few guys with their first times experimenting with men.
And I’ll be honest, some it just isn’t for, most have loved it. But if your nervous, you will clench, then pain, then no fun, so like you said, you loosen up first, not just physically but mentally.

Few drinks, play with her, get turned on, then if you want to be bottom, let him start on you while your on her, (just touching, fingers, so on). slow, go slow. It’s not a race. You will know when your ready for more, then he can taken the next step.

Most MMF threesomes we have are about 4 hour sessions, yet 1 on 1 sex is what, 15 min, an hour max?

This is not easy to describe.

Anal feels more full, which I like, but the pleasure is not as good, and the longer it goes on, the more quickly the pleasure dies off. Not to mention the preparation, the time, and so on.
I like Anal, but really, if I got it once for every 20 times I get vaginal I am satisfied.
DP, one in both, just amplified everything. The good and the bad.
Positions are awkward, it takes time, but the full feeling is even better, and the pleasure of both holes is even better.
If Oral is 10/10, Vaginal is 8/10, Anal is 5/10, and DP is 11/10. But DP with toys is nowhere near the same, in fact I don’t like it.

My husband says Anal is so hard to get in, and then its like 1 tight ring, whereas Vaginal has stuff everywhere going on. He likes both, but prefers Vaginal. Those “everything going on” descriptions vs 1 ring, is kind of the same for me, there is just so much more being pleasured with Vaginal.

As for you receiving Anal, the real penis feels so different, and so much better than toys, I do recommend trying the real thing at least once!