i can’t speak for all vulva’d people, but… i feel like that’s mostly a porn thing.
the amount of times i licked my hand before masturbating: once, to see if it was good. it wasn’t (and i find it kind of gross. no offense to ppl who are into it tho). and i masturbate a lot
pre-transition, getting it wet wasn’t even that hard. why would i use spit for that lmao. i mean some people might have that issue, right, but i’d still rather just use lube if that were the case
i think it’s just supposed to be hot for whatever reason
yeah, for sure… big tits in sweaters get me turned on something awful. or sheer clothing? and ofc bras/bikinis/etc
agreed about there getting less cfnm porn nowadays. a lot of stuff has homogenized