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Cake day: February 8th, 2024

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  • While I’m not primarily looking for a discussion about strategy I do understand it’s inevitable, so…

    While this seems like a great strategy for you, it isn’t for me, I’ve tried this and many other strategies and failed at all.

    I’m looking for this specific capabilty in the format because what I need is a low-stakes way to get back on the horse. And from my research and knowledge about myself this requirement (“forget if not done”) is the best I can work with. If you have ideas or systems that deal with this I’m open to discuss them

    I don’t really need help when things are going well, but I will fail and I will drop all the balls and almost everything else for a few months for reasons, some days I will forget if I took my 08:00 medication or if I have eaten. Some weeks I wont be able to call my mother to check on her or my friends to make plans.

    I need a place to see 3-5 meaningful things I can do right now, because if there are too many I get overwhelmed. If there is a long list of things I haven’t done I get too discouraged or if I have to start by figuring out what to do I get stuck on finding the best thing.

    So, while I’m glad you can manage to just fucking do it, I can’t.