JayJay

my longest was all day. I started doing it in the morning at work and then had a very intense orgasm in the evening. When I do it otherwise, it usually takes around 2-3 hours.

It makes me even harder during sex, so I’m lucky. You really can’t always do it spontaneously.

That is certainly an important factor

I’m sure you have other things for that 😬

Do you really find it that difficult?

Hopefully it is clear that you should ask and communicate. 😀 With a little lubricant it is definitely easier and more fun. If I do it myself while jerking off, then the finger goes in quite well without lubricant, but if the woman does it, please do so with a little moisture. Playing at the hole is also very exciting and you don’t always have to push something in.