How long do you last? Excluding foreplay.
No lame answers like “it varies”. If it varies, tell us how/why it varies and tell us a number anyway.
Heterosexual females/gay males, feel free to kiss and tell. Tell us how long your previous dudes have lasted.
Have fun with this thread. Discuss! :)
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Essentially forever. If I want to orgasm not only do I have to concentrate, but I need very specific kinds of stimulation. It’s a real bother most of the time, but I have never in my life finished early, so…
This is a real head game for me. I go early so I really focus on foreplay to get her going. I’ll last anywhere between 1 and 5 minutes UNLESS she cums first. For whatever reason, as soon as I know she’s satisfied, I can go for a lot longer. Why can’t I just start out that way? My mind hates me:)
As for me? Let’s say that even Duolingo knows and makes fun of me!
As everyone, it really depends on many factors:
- When was the last time I had sex (1 month, 1 week, 1 day, 1 hour ago, etc.)
- How was foreplay (if foreplay was amazing, then I have to double the efforts in not cumming)
- How long I want to last (I can kinda control it, but there are situations where once I’m off the edge, it’s done)
- Position and things being done to me (if I’m fucking a statue, then I can last as much as I want, but if I’m being touched, kissed and licked all over, then I can count the seconds)
Anywho… anything between 5 minutes and 40 or so. After that I get tired, and I appreciate the effort of people working. The most I’ve been doing it has been 2hr. I must admit it got boring at the end. There are so many possibilities in a 1:1.
If foreplay is particularly good I honestly prefer to just actually cum during foreplay, so I can start sex in round-2 mode and last quite a while. Instead of going inside her already on the edge of blowing my load.
I’m more of a one shot kind of guy. So if I cum outside, it’s game over for while.
It really does vary. Going down on her is a huge turn on for me, so if it’s been a few says and we start things off with me going down on her it’ll be maybe 5 minutes before I reach the edge. If we’ve recently done it, or it’s round 2, or if foreplay was short I can keep going for 45 minutes.
Of course it also depends on how long I want to last. I can probably finish in about 5-10 minutes if we’re just having a quickie.As I went trough different depression/ADHD meds with them the lasting came and went (pun somewhat intended). When I lost my virginity somewhat properly, before any psychological diagnosis, I was all the way flacid, DNF and she still wanted to meet again (it was more complicated, unfortunately). Otherwise probably wanked too much, had trouble coming. When I’ve lost my virginity now fully properly I could not finish for a whole week of daily+ banging. At the beginning of the pandemic I was so hard to get off, that I could have semi-regular 2-3h sessions where I focused on my partner. Sometimes even DNF if my partner didn’t went the extra mile for rimming. Then I was pretty regular. Now I can’t last several moves inside my wife’s pussy 😁 and I have moments when I’m to tired to come this quickly.
