Apparently it’s a trend that most men just receive wallets rather than buying them

  • beefbot@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    5 days ago

    YOU CAN BUY YOURSELF ANYTHING YOU WANT ESPECIALLY A WALLET

    srry this just reads as “duh my bros is it geyy to git yerself a wallet” NO JUST BUY ONE

  • dumbass@leminal.space
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    6 days ago

    I keep getting wallets as gifts even though everyone knows I don’t use a wallet, I have a collection of wallets that will never feel the back of my ass.

  • Default_Defect@midwest.social
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    6 days ago

    I was taken to the store by my step father and he made me spend my money on a wallet that I no longer had money to put inside of. I have bought all of my wallets myself.

  • Captain Aggravated@sh.itjust.works
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    6 days ago

    I tend to be particular about my everyday carry equipment and so I think I’ve killed that kind of gift out of my circle. My current wallet is entering its 12th year of service in surprisingly good condition. A Big Skinny L-shape. I’m not in the habit of carrying all my airman certificates around with me anymore so if I were to replace it I’d just go with their basic nylon bifold.

    Seems to be a cool company; when I bought my wallet in early 2013 the price was $26, it’s now $30. I think that’s slower than inflation.

  • sevan@lemmy.ca
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    6 days ago

    I got several wallets as gifts ages ago, but I got sick of carrying fat wallets and found a slim wallet to buy for myself and have used it for as long as I can remember now. I would never trade it out unless I somehow found an even skinnier one (or it gets lost or destroyed).

    • LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      6 days ago

      What’s it look like that makes it thin? I don’t have a change pocket or such, but I still think my wallet is larger than needed. Tri fold wallets I never liked because they are thick as well.

      • sevan@lemmy.ca
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        5 days ago

        Its a very thin layer of leather on the outside and very thin layers of fabric on the inside. It is 2 credit cards tall, so depending on how many cards you have, you distribute them across 4 pockets. The billfold section is split into a shallow and a deep compartment, so you can arrange things at 2 levels, if you want. I rarely carry cash, so that part usually just has some small notes or receipts or nothing at all.

        So it is partly the layout and partly the materials that keeps it thin. “Nice” wallets are usually all leather or mostly leather, which makes them much thicker and tri-folds are the worst.

    • sevan@lemmy.ca
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      6 days ago

      I checked out of curiosity, its an Allet Original (was called classic leather when I bought it) and I’ve had it for 9 years. Its still in great condition, but apparently they cost almost twice as much now (I paid $35, they’re $66 now).

  • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    6 days ago

    I dunno, it tends to happen more when people are forced/tricked/want to provide a gift without really knowing what to get.

    It’s a reliable generic gift because wallets wear out, and there’s usually room to switch between several.

    It gets less common as you age, but it still happens unless you have the habit of refusing to switch wallets, or have talked about exactly what you want in a wallet and people realize they’re better off going a different route.

    I’m really particular about my wallets. Right size, right pocket configuration, right materials. I want my wallets the be able to be pulled out and I can find what I need blindfolded because of decades of familiarity. I like a licence window. I want durable materials over pretty materials, when the choice is necessary.

    So, I buy my own damn wallets when one is wearing out. Nobody buys me wallets any more because I show the new ones off. Since I’m also known for saying “oh man, that’s a nice wallet, that’ll be what I use when this one wears out”, it kinda makes it a disappointing gift to give, even though I would never say that and it not be true.

  • Marty_TF@lemmy.zip
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    6 days ago

    i only bouhgt my current one myself

    the ones before were all gifts from my grandpa, and the last one lasted 11 years and i know he would have liked the one i bought. really tried to pick one he would have gifted me :)

  • Dizzy Devil Ducky@lemm.ee
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    6 days ago

    Pretty sure I have never bought a wallet myself. Out of the 2 wallets I’ve ever really had as far as I’m aware, they’ve been not necessarily gifts but were definitely bought for me.

  • Rikudou_Sage@lemmings.world
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    6 days ago

    Both yes and no. I’ve received most of my wallets was a gift, but people have crappy tastes, so I ended up buying my own.